With A Heavy Heart We Push Forward

This past week I was blindsided. It was supposed to be a joyous occasion but it quickly turned into a time of speechlessness, shock, and a heavy spirit. The fact is, when you have teens and young adult children, they are bound to do something that rips at your heart. It makes you realize that…

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Listen!

Suicide is preventable.  Listen, really listen to your teens.  They want you to listen.  They need you to listen.  Don’t wait until it is too late.

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Every Single Day….

If you’re a dad and you think that your role is not that important as a parent, please watch this video!   [youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U8d8z3yX6eI#t=38]

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ELLO, it’s more like GOODBYE!

Recently a new site has been making waves to out-do the most infamous social site, Facebook. With ELLO in the wings to take upon those who have flown the coop from Facebook, it has also been making quite a few choices that are sending red flags to parents. Although ELLO is now apparently an “invitation…

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Their Addictions, Our Controlling

As a parent who not only has seen other parents with kids and addictions, I too, saw the issues first hand within my own home. Although these addictions were not to drugs or alcohol, they were still addictive behavior that had control over our daughter’s lives. For many years I thought that if only I…

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The Silent Danger

If you think your pre-teen or teen is safe against pedophiles on the internet, think again.  Although they will use the computer to get to your child, they can also use texting and cam on their cell phone or have communication through the local library.  It only takes one click.  One picture.  Pre-teens and teens…

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A Secret Safe to Tell

Naomi Hunter wrote a gentle and effective way to help children and teens talk about sexual abuse.  Parents, Teachers, Psychologists, and more give high praises for her book that was colorfully written to help expose this very difficult topic to discuss.  It is her first children’s story book and has been featured on Mamamia.com, ABC,…

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Letter to His Divorced Parents

Divorce brings more emotional damage than the loss of a parent through death.  Parents think that if they give enough love to their child or teen, that it will solve any or all future problems.  False.  Please view this video for a reality check.  What this young boy shares is what most teens feel. [youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lbTFZ8cvHo4]

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Letters to God on a Prodigal Son – Overcoming Addiction Through Prayer

I came across this book at a writer’s conference and am encouraging parents who have an adult or teen struggling with addiction to please consider purchasing.  Anita Estes tells her true story and journey through a parent’s view of her adult child’s addiction.  It is in the form of a journal which is packed with…

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The Hole of Abandonment

Having so many losses in a child’s life naturally alters their teenage years into adulthood. The need for love is so traumatic that it doesn’t matter the cost involved in getting that love even if it means deceiving themselves. Teens will crave attention, find themselves involved in addictive patterns, and create problems that can become…

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